tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950347276885018368.post6878580066919193620..comments2022-11-03T05:20:47.303-02:30Comments on My Ever-Evolving Life: Unexpected InsightsBayGirlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10933199694750403822noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950347276885018368.post-52343920007885938212011-04-21T00:02:40.312-02:302011-04-21T00:02:40.312-02:30Thank you Chris. I needed that smile :) It's b...Thank you Chris. I needed that smile :) It's been a rough few days emotionally due to romantic, work, and financial issues (well, life in general, really), but I am overcoming the weakness and feeling stronger again bit by bit. It's such a rollercoaster ride and I'm such a sucker for punishment. I actually found I couldn't quite terminate contact cold turkey and talked to the latest guy a couple of times since...but despite how great he was before, he is now showing me that he is no longer worth my time. I could torture myself with questions and ponderings, but there is really no point. His actions speak louder than his words and that's the bottom line. It sucks and it's so lonely when you have so much to give and there's no one who interests you and no one who is up to par with receiving and reciprocating (as this guy was and no longer is), but that's life I suppose. I'm sort of bouncing back and forth from hope and faith to cynicism and despair, but I'm sure you're right - it will eventually get better...BayGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10933199694750403822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950347276885018368.post-33145230181285627202011-04-20T22:26:44.803-02:302011-04-20T22:26:44.803-02:30Sorry to hear about your latest setback BG – we ca...Sorry to hear about your latest setback BG – we can be such jerks - and I won’t patronize you by saying something like hang it there, someone is bound to come along or it’s always darkest before the dawn, but...well you know. And your friends do mean well - at least I hope so. If not, get new friends:)<br /><br />As for the universe throwing you those messages; a caveat. I also experienced a similar situation – difficult break up – and everything I heard on the radio or saw on TV reminded me of her or us. I was convinced the play list of the local radio station picked songs specifically with me in mind. I’m sure reading the back of a cereal box reminded me of her. Come to think of it…two scoops of raison bran…she had two eyes - my god, it’s everywhere. But - and this is not meant to sound condescending - it does get better. Those messages have always been there and will continue to be there when this passes, and eventually you won’t notice them. In the interim, if it helps and words of wisdom speak to you from a bumper sticker or bubble gum wrapper, run with it - it worked for me. <br /><br />And when you stop noticing those messages, and eventually you will, all is truly well.Chrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15346117937049835946noreply@blogger.com